Rebuke for anyone who chooses the same dish as someone else at the table when eating out
From an occasion – possibly at Meridiana, Horsley – when several young Iliffs took a fancy to the same main course
Mum – 1970s?
Pauline Iliff (Dixon) – mother of Mark, JM, G & Bel
Iliffs still feel under pressure to order differently from everyone else at the table